Handling Rude Customers

Dealing with rude customers is part art, part science, and all about keeping your cool when the heat is up. Down here in South Louisiana, we are known for our warm hospitality, but every once in a while, someone is bound to stir the pot a little too much.

Here’s how I handle those spicy situations without letting the gumbo boil over.
First thing’s first - let them vent. People sometimes just need to air out, like a good front porch conversation during a summer thunderstorm. But, don’t let them trample all over your good nature. There’s a point where you must gently, but firmly, stop them—like tellin’ a gator he has gotten too close to your houseboat.

Now, if I know the person well, I might get a bit more personal. I’ll say something like, “John, I hear you loud and clear, and I know you’re upset. I want you to know, this conversation stays right here on the porch.” It’s important to make sure they know it’s not about you or them, but about the situation.

When their voices get louder and their words faster, that’s your cue to keep calm. Never raise your tone. My momma used to say, “When the river is risin’, the last thing you want to do is start splashing more water around.” Staying calm is crucial; it shows you are in control of the situation, even if inside, you’re ready to boil over.

Listening—and I mean really listening—is probably the hardest part, but it’s essential. People want to feel heard, and sometimes, that’s all it takes to turn around a bad situation.

Agreeing with them where you can is like adding just the right amount of seasoning to a dish—it can make all the difference. It shows you are not just there to argue but to make things right. Like when you find that piece of crab shell in your gumbo, acknowledge it, apologize, and scoop it right out.

Staying consistent is key. Do not waver like a reed in the bayou. Be respectful and stand your ground, firmly and politely. And when it comes to explanations, keep them short and sweet. Long stories don’t do any good; they just complicate things.

Finally, show them you are about action, not just words. Don’t play the blame game. It’s like my Daddy used to say about fishing, “Don’t blame the fish, or the bait; just change your technique.” Offer solutions straight away, and let them see you are working to fix the problem.

Dealing with difficult folks is never easy, but it’s part of life. Remember, a little patience, a calm demeanor, and a listening ear go a long way in keeping the peace and making sure everyone leaves happy, like after a good crawfish boil.

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